What if the reason you feel empty isn’t because you’re not doing enough—but because you’re pouring from an empty cup? From a village girl with patched sandals to a minister who has walked with thousands of Nigerian teenagers, Tammy Ebenezer knows what it means to run on empty. She spent years trying to become someone else—changing her accent, hiding her roots, performing for acceptance—until she discovered the secret that changed everything: love starts with you.